Watching Him Change

March 13, 2018

I stepped into my boyfriend’s life at a bad time; or maybe a good time.  He had recently cut ties with her, and he knew he was never going to have the family he pictured when he found out he was going to be a Dad.  I watched him grow from the “boy” he was when […]

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Why I Started This Blog

December 27, 2017

I started this blog for a few reasons. I wanted to write for myself. I’m the type of person who has to think out loud.  This is kind of thinking out loud for me.  I’m writing down my thoughts, my feelings, my experiences.  I sometimes find myself admitting to things I haven’t admitted to myself […]

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Tips for the Step Mom

The Christmas Holidays

December 24, 2017

As Christmas is creeping up, I feel like I have to make a blog post.  For a while now, I have been at a loss about what to write.  And frankly, I have been really busy with this college semester coming to and end. When you have a step family, holidays are often split up […]

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Tips for the Step Mom

Think Positive

November 23, 2017

“You can choose love or hate, I choose love” – Johnny Cash. It’s so easy to focus on all the bad aspects of being a Step Parent.  Baby Momma drama, step kids being disrespectful, court dates, lack of support and understanding from family and friends, stressed out significant other. There’s an endless list of shit […]

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Tips for the Step Mom

How I Dealt with Jealousy

November 20, 2017

Jealousy… It’s something I am constantly working on.  If you had ready last weeks post on “How I Struggled With Jealousy”, you might have caught on that I am not your most secure of gals out there.  And that’s okay, because I’m working on it. I am my own unique person. I try my hardest […]

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Adventures with Little Boy

Our First Overnight

November 11, 2017

The only time my boyfriend has ever spent overnights with his son was the few nights in the hospital after he was born.  For almost two years now, he has never spent a night with him. The court process has been incredibly long and stressful process.  We fought tooth and nail to finally get the […]

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