Fathers Rights

An Experiment

February 9, 2018

In one of my college courses, we are learning about legislation in my province.  There was a few articles I had to read based on some information of children and child support, fatherless homes, parental alienation and other similar topics.  I was happy with the content I was reading, as it supported some of my […]

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How to be The Best Step Mom

January 23, 2018

Alright ladies.  This might grind some gears, as I think my opinions might differ from others.  However, I have adopted some of these opinions whilst learning about the family dynamics in one of my college courses. You’re not their Mom. Hard to hear, I know.  First and foremost, you did not carry them in your […]

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Why I Started This Blog

December 27, 2017

I started this blog for a few reasons. I wanted to write for myself. I’m the type of person who has to think out loud.  This is kind of thinking out loud for me.  I’m writing down my thoughts, my feelings, my experiences.  I sometimes find myself admitting to things I haven’t admitted to myself […]

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The Christmas Holidays

December 24, 2017

As Christmas is creeping up, I feel like I have to make a blog post.  For a while now, I have been at a loss about what to write.  And frankly, I have been really busy with this college semester coming to and end. When you have a step family, holidays are often split up […]

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Being a Step Mom Has Changed my Life

November 27, 2017

It has changed my life in a lot of ways I didn’t expect. I’m in my early 20’s.  For the longest time, I have always said I hated kids, and I’m never going to have any.  When I was in the dating world I would immediately be uninterested if the guy had kids.  I never […]

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Think Positive

November 23, 2017

“You can choose love or hate, I choose love” – Johnny Cash. It’s so easy to focus on all the bad aspects of being a Step Parent.  Baby Momma drama, step kids being disrespectful, court dates, lack of support and understanding from family and friends, stressed out significant other. There’s an endless list of shit […]

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How I Dealt with Jealousy

November 20, 2017

Jealousy… It’s something I am constantly working on.  If you had ready last weeks post on “How I Struggled With Jealousy”, you might have caught on that I am not your most secure of gals out there.  And that’s okay, because I’m working on it. I am my own unique person. I try my hardest […]

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